By Sarah Ashley Hendricks
Why study a modern foreign language? I believe it’s important to know our “whys,” so I always ask my students this question on Day 1 of French class. The top answers usually revolve around helping us communicate when traveling or helping with jobs (missions, interpreting, hospitality, etc.). And while these are undeniable perks of learning a language, I think most of us would agree that the benefits of language education go deeper. A few of the less superficial merits of language-learning that I want to look at today are: a Broadened Perspective, Humility, & Empathy. In an elementary language program like ours at Anthem, where fluency is not the end goal, these virtues make up the foundation on which I hope to build my French classes.
A Broadened Perspective.
God has surrounded us with a huge, diverse world that we limited beings have only just scratched the surface of. A beautiful part of teaching at Anthem is getting to broaden our students’ view of this world while continually pointing back to its Creator. I view language-learning as a bridge, connecting our students to people, cultures, and concepts that were completely unknown to them before. Learning French, specifically, allows our students to build connections with over 235 million French speakers across more than 30 countries on 5 continents. This “language bridge” allows formerly irrelevant information suddenly to have meaning because there is now a context for people, places, and things that our kids encounter.
I love it when kids come into my class bursting with excitement to tell me:
“I saw the word ‘Bonjour’ on my strawberry container!”
Or “I noticed the instructions to my board game were written in English and French!”
Or “There’s a boy who speaks another language on my flag football team and he might be from a French-speaking country in Africa!”
Or “We learned how to spell ‘ballet’ today, and Ms. Watson said it’s a French word!”
Without the language bridge there would be no reason for my students to observe these things. Language-learning is very much opening their eyes to the broad world around them.
Humility.
Another question I pose to my older students is, “What does it take to be a language learner?” Time, hard work, practice, and persistence all get mentioned— and, of course, these are necessary elements. But I believe that underlying all these, a modern language learner must take on a spirit of humility. This becomes harder as we get older-- there is a noticeable difference even between my kindergarteners and 5th graders-- because we have to be willing to regress, to sound a little silly, to be misunderstood, to make a lot of mistakes; basically, to sound like a 2-year-old!
When I left to study abroad in college, I felt pretty decent about my French. I had done well in my classes, and I had even met with a French exchange student a few times before my departure to practice conversational French. Well, not surprisingly, that self-perception flew out the window after being in France for about 24 hours. And even after being there for four months, living with a French family, I still never reached the point of feeling like I could express my full personality. I love humor, but I realized that it required a level of nuance in the language that I didn’t have. So it just wasn’t part of my personality in France. It was humbling.
One of my favorite stories to tell my students in regards to humility is when I was trying to bake a cake in France. I had copied down the recipe, in French, and was at the store shopping for ingredients with a girl in my study abroad program. One of our ingredients read: “Une cuillère à soupe de lait.” -- literally “a spoon of soup of milk.” We puzzled over this for a minute before deciding “soupe de lait'' must be some sort of condensed or evaporated milk. We turned the store upside down searching the milk section, then the baking section, looking everywhere for the mysterious ingredient. We finally gave up and timidly approached an employee, asking in French where to find it. When she looked at us quizzically, we showed her our recipe. She smiled and pointed out that our recipe called for a “soup spoon,” or Tablespoon, of milk. Regular old milk. We were quite embarrassed, but being college girls, quickly shifted to laughter.
Ideally that’s where the humility of language-learning takes us: to a right-sized view of ourselves. One in which we can laugh at our mistakes and move on. We try to practice that in class: if someone accidentally says “I am bread” instead of “I like bread,” we share a laugh and keep moving forward, knowing we are all going to make mistakes like that as we learn.
Empathy.
The story about my cake ingredient mishap is one of so many “foot-in-mouth” situations in my French-learning voyage. And all of those experiences-- of the embarrassment and awkwardness and sheer difficulty of language learning-- leave me with a gift. The gift of understanding and relating to the millions of people around the globe, and right around us in Fayetteville, who are in the same struggle. People who are out of their comfort zone, maybe traveling, or studying, or seeking refuge & work. People who locals might consider a nuisance. But people whom God calls us to love.
Last year, my husband met a French-speaking man from Cameroon. He moved to the U.S. hoping to find better work and a better life, even though it meant leaving his home and family-- including a pregnant wife-- behind. After three years of hard work he had become proficient in English, found a decent job, and his wife and daughter were able to join him in Fayetteville. Our family had the opportunity to host all three of them for lunch on Christmas Day. Not only did we share a meal with them, but we also got to speak in French with the wife and daughter, who still didn’t know any English, and hadn’t been able to speak to anyone outside their family since being in the U.S.
It’s opportunities like this that motivate me more than anything else to keep up the difficult journey that is language-learning. These moments don’t happen every day, but they happen more often than you might think. I very much hope that by sharing the French language and stories like these with my students-- our children-- I can nurture these same values of broadened perspective, humility, and empathy in them.